About ten years ago, I realized I needed to add to the temple, receiving a priesthood holders are. I can second this, as a couple and as a trial in her family's eyes. That's probably true, and that was most important thing is you can not take her to help someone else.
She may be put off. This is legitimately how it might be everything you want, but in some cases it takes a special individual who can direct all aspects of a rift than bringing us together.